namelesswonder wrote:^That's definitely how my boyfriend deals with things. He will whine occasionally, but he usually apologizes for it immediately and at least outwardly moves on quickly. He has told me that he is only capable of crying for a few seconds, and it rarely happens, and doesn't make him feel better. There are certain topics that we don't discuss (largely in his past, I have a sense and basic knowledge of what these things are) and while my inclination is to discuss those issues with him, he has no desire to, and I do realize that it's not necessary. It's just a matter of convincing my overly-empathetic self to let go of the matter and worry infinitely less about his mental well-being.
voiddj wrote:Even when I do feel physically/mentally crap my default answer to the question "how are you?" is always to say I'm ok. I just can't wear my heart on my sleeve.
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