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[callianthus]

I am the OP, new account (forgot the password to the above acct., and the email I signed up with.. DOH!)..

I actually know a LOT of men who don't look at prn while they are in a relationship. And by "a LOT", I am talking 20+ guys. They'll watch it while single, but are perfectly satisfied and happy without it while in a relationship.

Take my guy. He doesn't watch prn, because he's with me, and I am enough.. Thank GOD!

I am one of those girls who DOES feel threatened by prn. I don't exactly find comfort in the whole "sometimes you want fries" thing, and my boyfriend doesn't either.

If he is pizza, than pizza is all I want (and vice versa).. I also don't get comparing a person to food, seeing as sexual encounters can change drastically each time with one person..

In other words, as long as you and your boyfriend switch it up enough and try new things, you won't always be having pizza, and you won't want to go get your fries at a different restaurant.

I also don't believe men need prn, I don't believe it's in their blood, I don't believe they were born wanting to watch it, and I don't believe it's *natural*, or necessary.

If it was natural, like shitting+eating+sleeping+breathing is, the male race would have died off LONG ago, seeing as prn is a pretty new thing (taking into consideration how long humans have supposedly been on this planet)..

It's not a NEED, it's a LUXURY. It's like saying all girls have 28375983 pairs of shoes, it's natural, it's necessary, etc.. It's a stereotype. I have 2 pairs of boots and 3 pairs of high heels.. You can't truthfully or legitimately say that all guys watch prn, unless you can truthfully or legitimately say that all girls have 30470983 pairs of shoes. I am kinda drunk, I don't know if any of this is making sense?

[poorandweird]

I have never seen it but I heard about QuitSpammingOurSite for women that is like a bad romance novel. Like really corny love story and all that knight on a white horse crap. I could be wrong but I remember hearing about it. That would be funny to watch.

haha really ?

Nooo!

just good looking people !

[Inky Fingers]

Well even the stuff I've seen thats for women is way off base.
Totally ripped guys kinda freak me out, and then they throw em in service worker outfits, weird.

Me thinks they were made by men who fondly imagined they knew what women wanted to watch.

[creapeycaress]

Well even the stuff I've seen thats for women is way off base.
Totally ripped guys kinda freak me out, and then they throw em in service worker outfits, weird.

Me thinks they were made by men who fondly imagined they knew what women wanted to watch.

hahaha
i guess that means they need to make "the nice guy" prno

[loafshine]

Prn can be fun, I don't really mind that the guys AND girls are both not at all my style of sexy (and yeah, those fake boobs can be way too much..) because I'm just checking it out to objectify them and their actions, I don't seriously care what their faces look like. I think it's all about what they're doing, rather than who they are.
I know my boy watches prn and it's cool with me, we actually had a big talk about what we each like to watch that turned really hot, so how can I complain? Hah. And maybe I have a weird sense of romance, but he told me that since we've been dating, he's started looking for stuff with more "punk" chicks in it, and I thought that was totally sweet. Sooo I told him to check out burningangel .. how can I be in any way offended if what he's looking for in prn is directly related to how he sees me? I can't help but be flattered

[Kadavar_Kate]

To quote my old boss "Why watch it when you can live it?"



Don't ask how he came upon the subject of t3h pr0nzorz

[NikkiNockers]

I .... analogy... Pizza is great... but sometimes you want fries. Ya know. But in a relationship, ya cant go out and ya know... get a side of "fries".... so looking at QuitSpammingOurSite, is the best way to be like hey... My "pizza" is pretty awesome.

amirite?

Brutus, you are awesome. I totally agree with this. For years I was offended when I would come home and find a po-rn dvd in the player, it upset me and made me feel a little self consious. I also came to the realization that men are lazy and sometimes, when they're horny, it's easier to "take care" of them selves than it is to have sex.

[Brutus]

I .... analogy... Pizza is great... but sometimes you want fries. Ya know. But in a relationship, ya cant go out and ya know... get a side of "fries".... so looking at QuitSpammingOurSite, is the best way to be like hey... My "pizza" is pretty awesome.

amirite?

Brutus, you are awesome. I totally agree with this. For years I was offended when I would come home and find a po-rn dvd in the player, it upset me and made me feel a little self consious. I also came to the realization that men are lazy and sometimes, when they're horny, it's easier to "take care" of them selves than it is to have sex.

Hey I try. But Ive never been too lazy for sex. Never have I ever said "no hun, Id rather sit here and do nothing" As tired as I come home from work and what not. Im still ready to go. However, The dead kennedys did have it right. Too drunk to fuck. Happens.
Quite often.


Sadly.

[voodoodoll]

The boys i hang out with love QuitSpammingOurSite, they talk about it all the time and stuff lol. I don't go out of my way to watch it, but its ok.

[piratepinup]

the boy and i just had a talk about prn last night. he says he doesn't watch it. i told him i sure as hell do. it was weird for me, all the guys i've ever dated looked at prn/gone to strip clubs etc. and it doesn't bother me one bit. hell, i go to strip clubs with the guys sometimes! i told him i really don't care to see if his story changed but it didn't. hmmm, i can't figure this one out. he says i'm all he needs but, geez, looking isn't bad in my book! (touching on the other hand......)

[x_immortal_flame_x]

Wow, I've NEVER heard of quitspammingoursite till I read this thread.. and I googled it just to check it out & couldn't find it. Maybe it's more of a European thing that hasn't caught on in Canada.. ?
As for prn, I don't watch it to get off, but sometimes when friends are over we'll turn to the prn channels & watch it. I just think it's hillarious how they try to put a storyline into prno. There was this one I watched once where Some lady killed her husband, and while she was, ahem.. 'with' another man, he rises from his grave and well, gets with her. and then the three of him get it on. and then there's a zoom in to an alien watching through the window. haha. I don't know how people can find it hot, I just find them sorta comical, lol : ]
My boy watches QuitSpammingOurSite very, very seldom and usually only looks at pictures.. I suppose I feel a little sad that I'm not satisfying him, but at the same time I understand the whole pizza and fries philosophy ahha, it doesn't really bother me that much. : ]

[x_immortal_flame_x]

OHHHH I get it now ahha it's a language filter.
stupid me ahha., ><

[Lady_Lenore]

I know my fella watches normal QuitSpammingOurSite on the odd occassion but he only ever talks about the odd ones he watches for amusement, e.g "I watched a vintage, french, hippy QuitSpammingOurSite the other day and a nurse pour wee all over some old man at the end"

On the other end of the scale I have a friend who seems to watch nothing but fucked up QuitSpammingOurSite. But then shows it on the net when everyones together. How fucked up? Well: Mr Hands, 2 girls 1 cup, 8 girls no cup, finger painting, goatsey marathon, BME pain olympics one and two for anybody who needs to know. Mr Hands was especially disturbing - 1 guy, 1 horse, you know the drill, guy dies 5 mins later I HOPE he doesnt masturbate to them.

Myself, I only watch interesting or funny QuitSpammingOurSite.

[[Stevie]]

OHHHH I get it now ahha it's a language filter.
stupid me ahha., ><

it's okay! I did the same exactly thing..

[poorandweird]

As for prn, I don't watch it to get off, but sometimes when friends are over we'll turn to the prn channels & watch it. I just think it's hillarious how they try to put a storyline into prno. There was this one I watched once where Some lady killed her husband, and while she was, ahem.. 'with' another man, he rises from his grave and well, gets with her. and then the three of him get it on. and then there's a zoom in to an alien watching through the window. haha. I don't know how people can find it hot, I just find them sorta comical, lol : ]

agreed. pr0n is just ROFL-inducing most of the time.

We saw one where these people were doing each other in a car, but the hilarity ensued because a) you couldn't SEE anything (only faces, not even nipple!) and b) the script was so cheesy! at one point the guy was like "a shaved minge, how exotic!"